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From Stagnant To Pregnant?

Sunday, December 30th, 2007

Hey Doc,

My partner and I are trying to conceive. We’ve tried the traditional way and that’s not working. We’re considering fertility treatments. An issue of big concern for us, is that sex is beginning to feel mechanical. You know, the correct time of month, time of day, temperature, etc. I’m […]

Looking for Some ASSurance…

Thursday, December 20th, 2007

Hey Doc,
My boyfriend wants to explore anal sex with me. Me being the receiver, to be clear. Gulp, I’m not that comfortable with the idea. How should I approach this? Should I just tell him NO! Or am I clenching up for nothing? I’m just not sure what to do.
Signed, Not […]

Fifty and Fit to be Tied…

Thursday, December 6th, 2007

Dear Doc,
I am a lady in my late fifties, I feel that I still have lots of good loving and sex to look forward to. Unfortunately, my other half is not always up to it. This is happening to him more frequently recently. I am contemplating buying/using a vibrator or dildo ( I […]

Strap-On Advice

Wednesday, December 5th, 2007

Hi,
I was in your store this summer and bought a few items and now I would like some advice on harnesses. My boyfriend wants to experiment with being penetrated by me wearing a strap on. Any advice on which product to try? Di
Hi Di:
Good to hear from you. I would suggest the Bend Over Beginner […]

Pardon me, I’m a Doctor

Friday, November 2nd, 2007

Hello. I’ve never bought any sex toys or sex aids before. My question has to do with how to get optimal (not painful) clitoral stimulation during penile-vaginal intercourse (pardon me, I’m a doctor). I can’t reach orgasm during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation, and it gets rather awkward for my partner to use his hand […]

Looking for Another Side to the Story…

Sunday, September 23rd, 2007

Hey Doc,
A couple of years ago I was living in a house and there was a girl in the room next to mine. I really liked her but was never able to tell her because I was scared that it would become way too awkward to be living in the same house, same floor, if […]

The One Finger Salute?

Friday, September 14th, 2007

Hey Doc,
I have been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. He is very affectionate, always telling me he loves me, and I am 100% secure in our love for each other. However, I have recently been thinking about how much I feel the need for him to show […]

Ch-ch-ch-changes…

Thursday, September 13th, 2007

Hey Doc,
I appreciate that you don’t “beat around the bush” in your responses to people’s questions. You tell it how it is. Its very insightful and much of the advice I can apply to my own life.
As many of the other readers, I have a problem in my relationship with my boyfriend. Or […]

Depressing Sex Life…

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

Hey Doc,
I’m a 33 yr. old woman in a relationship with a 36 yr. old man for almost 2 years. In the beginning, we were the typical frisky couple and had a great sex life, although I definitely had a higher sex drive than he did (we’d have sex maybe 2-3 times a week and […]

Simulatin’ the stimulation?

Friday, August 3rd, 2007

Hey Doc,
This might seem like a really stupid question, but how can I tell if my girlfriend really cums? I don’t really think she’s faking it, but she obviously knows when I come, so I just think it’s not fair that I can’t tell with her.
Signed, Faked out???
Hey Faked out,
First, I’m sorry […]

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